Homeschools Built
on Love Not Big Bankrolls
Teaching your children need not cost a small fortune. Consider the
process of potty training. You can purchase DVDs, CDs, and buy books
(for you and your child); purchase special incentives and charts, buy
the latest in dolls, kits and eco-friendly potties; get your child their
own digital timer and nighttime sensor (to remind them to visit the
potty). OR you can talk to Moms you respect for advice, get a basic
potty, check a book or two out of your local library and check your
watch to remind your child to go to the bathroom. Either way can work;
the end result being a child that knows how to stay clean and dry on
their own. My point? You can spend a lot of money as you teach your
family. Some things may be worth it; others are simply overpriced and
unnecessary. Homeschooling can be very successful without spending hundreds
of dollars every year. There were a couple of years we only spent $25
for the entire school year. Other years we spent more. (My children
have received full-tuition scholarships to BYU-Idaho, the Presidential
scholarship to USU, and graduated college with honors.) You have the
ability and resources available to you to be a successful homeschooling
parent whether you have lots of cash or limited funds if you are willing
to be disciplined, focused, and can keep a sense of humor on the challenging
days.!
There are a myriad of free resources:
o Barter-Trade what you can do for those things with which you are
struggling. In the past our family has bartered for "stuff",
tutoring, sewing lessons, help with the younger children, you name it!
o The public library-Most parents vastly under-utilize this resource.
Books, CD's, music, magazines, classes and presentations, and some of
the best books sales available. Get to know the librarians at your local
branch. They can be gold mines in ideas and information!
o UHEA vendors-Their advice can be as valuable as their products BUT
KEEP IN MIND-if a vendor spends time working with you, you should buy
from them instead of looking for a "better deal" somewhere
else. Their time is money.
o The internet-wow! Ideas and forums for the Moms, curriculum ready
to use, places to order wonderful supplies, access to recordings of
great music, answers to just about any question you or your child may
have. Gotta love it. (Do get a good filter so that the seedy side of
life does not get an open-door invitation to your home!)
o Catalogs-lots of catalogs. Ever notice how ordering from one company
can increase your mail exponentially? That's okay. Look through your
favorites with a new eye. What can you create for your children? What
could they do?
o Share what you have; ask for what you need. People are generally flattered
if you ask for their help in a certain area.
There are great resources that are close to free.
o Shop second hand. Thrift stores, yard sales, used book sellers are
all gold mines! If you have never done it, you are in for some surprises.
o Community Education classes-for a minimal fee you can get your feet
wet in a vast array of subjects.
o Become familiar with stores such as All A Dollar, WalMart, Big Lots,
etc.
o Conventions, support group meetings, seminars. Some charge a fee,
others are simply the cost of a babysitter.(Know what you're getting
if you are paying more than a few dollars. Overspending is easy and
can be frustrating if you do not come away with information you can
use.) Meetings provide an opportunity to gain great information, and
to create a support group. Can't find one that fits your needs? Consider
starting one.
o Public television-technically it is free, but if you are using it
consistently, send them at least a small donation.
o Field trips-great for bringing your curriculum to life and giving
everyone a break. Look for smaller learning opportunities as well as
the larger, obvious ones. (Does someone in your area train helper dogs?
Keep bees? Remember the Depression?)
o The newspaper-history as it happens, biographies, recipes, humor (always
needed), science, art, field trip ideas, editorials. I love it.
o Throw a party! Turn your next unit into a celebration. Dress in period
dress, serve period food, play the games and listen to the music that
fits with your study, maybe even put on a play. Invite the grandparents,
neighbors, whoever.
Curriculum ideas
Language Arts
o Memorize poetry and other significant works.
o Study other languages.
o Play Mad-libs or other language games
o Put on a play
o Read a book and then watch the movie. How do they compare?
o Read, read, read and talk about what you are reading. Just remember
to use great literature.
o Do narrations.
o Write. Journals, letters, stories, reports, jokes, nonsense words,
poetry. Write with them. Write on your own. Share what they are writing
with others.
Mathematics
o Make your own manipulatives from wood, felt, beans, paper, cloth,
just about whatever you have a surplus of can be a learning tool. Get
the whole family involved.
o Play math games.
o Teach life skills; budgeting, financial planning, cooking, building
Social Studies
o Be social
o Serve/ volunteer/ get involved. Spend time helping at the food bank,
the library, a hospital, the local shut-ins.
o Get involved in the political process with your children. Campaign,
put out fliers, do a "honk and wave", learn about the principles
that we have the good fortune to enjoy.
o Experience other cultures through festivals, food, music, neighbors,
art, maps. Learn some basic vocabulary.
o Study the holidays. How are they celebrated in other places? What
are their origins?
History
o We LOVE history! Read about real people who did REAL things.
o Science, art, music, family stories all have a place in your history
study.
o Have a time line. Let me say that again. Have a time line. EVERYONE
needs to see how things fit together.
o Study documents and speeches. Memorize some. Dissect others.
o Purchase a copy of the 1828 Webster's Dictionary. ( I realize this
class is on saving $$$$. Some things must be purchased; this is one
of them. Use it often to make it well-used and loved.)
o Put on a play or write a radio broadcast for events you have studied.
o Study world history as a complete picture. (What was happening in
Europe or the Middle East during the Revolutionary War?)
o Stay away from textbooks. They are boring, have limited information,
and put people to sleep.
o Build models, make costumes, recreate the things used in the past.
o History is fun in the kitchen. Make johnny cake or hummus or hard
tack. Live with just the items the pilgrims or the Templar Knights would
have had.
o Watch good documentaries or historically-based plays or movies.
Science
o Plant a garden. Preserve the surplus.
o Watch the weather by building your own instruments. (There are great
books at the library for this.)
o Start a collection.
o Learn survival skills, first aid, basic health, and nutrition.
o Keep a pet.
o Get into the kitchen. Learn about reactions, heat and cold, bacteria
etc.
o What did you want to learn about as a child? Now is the time.
o Check experiment books out from the library.
o Read about famous scientists.
o Start a nature notebook
Geography
o Make a map or collect them. Display them as you study history or
various cultures.
o Contact different tourist centers for informational packets.
o Learn to use a compass.
o Study the changes in the earth's physical geography or political boundaries.
o Memorize countries and capitols/states and capitols.
o Talk with people who have lived in different parts of the US or other
countries.
o Study your family background. When did your ancestors come to America.
From where? Where did they settle?
The Arts
o Be creative.
o Learn by doing. Try different handi-crafts, look at books on famous
works of art, art technique, or famous artists.
o Try needlework, sculpture, painting or any other art medium.
o Go to an art museum.
o Keep a nature notebook.
o Attend music concerts at the local high school. Go to the annual musical.
o Temple Square does a non-denominational concert series that is free,
covers multiple genres, and is always fun.
o Check out CDs at the library. There is a series of CDs that introduce
classics by adding memorable and goofy lyrics called Beethoven's Wig.
I highly recommend it.
o Learn about the lives of famous composers.
o Take instrumental music lessons. (Barter maybe?)
o Teach your children the basics of rhythm and tone. As a family experience
different styles of music and performance. Not sure where to start?
Ask the best musician you know to help you find resources. (They may
even volunteer to help.)
o Learn to lead music.
o Read plays. Go see one. It could become a habit.
o Attend dance concerts. Learn the basic steps for ballet, tap, jazz,
whatever. (You may have a twelve-year-old in your neighborhood who could
share what they have learned.)
o Teach proper etiquette for attending a concert, play, or museum.
Real Life
o Teach your family to cook, clean, do laundry, etc.
o Have a basic schedule for your academic days. When do you do chores,
academics, free time, etc? Stick to your schedule. The phone, door,
and other appointments can derail the best of intentions if allowed
to do so.
o Homeschooling is a family affair. Keep Dad in the loop. Share chores,
meals, and decisions as a family.
o When you have a genuine emergency or life-changing event, make it
part of what you are teaching. As a family, we experienced miscarriage,
death, military deployments, moves, unemployment, illness (Mom spent
six months on her back in bed), heart surgeries, and a few other opportunities
to learn. Just remember that your children will learn to handle the
unexpected by watching you handle it!
Just a few other thoughts:
o Textbooks are not necessary to a good homeschool. My personal exceptions
to that rule are Saxon Math (for 5th grade and older) and The Making
of America for studying the Constitution with your teens. Classic literature
provides a much more diverse and interesting education.
o Use 4-H and Scouting books. They are interesting, inexpensive, and
easy to understand.
o Put a stop sign on your door. Let the phone go to voicemail. Focus
on your children.
o If you bought something that everyone dislikes, forcing your family
to use it does not do you any favors. Put it away to try again later
or sell it or even give it away.
o Have a book with a bad text? Take it apart and save the pictures,
maps, lists, etc. for future projects.
o Make games, flash cards, dominoes, whatever. You can often produce
things rather than purchasing them.
o Give learning games, books, etc. as gifts. You can spend your money
on fun but inane things, or you can spend the same amount on a well-thought-out
item that will be appreciated.
o No one loves your children as you do. You can do this. Just remember
that bad days will happen. Challenges will crop up. That's okay Keep
going. Call a friend. Take a break. Go for a hike. Bake cookies. Have
a game day. Start again tomorrow.
Survival Skills
o Register with your school district. Stay within the law. We have
great freedom to do as we see fit; do not make your family the one that
compromises that!
o Write a family or school mission statement. Know where you are headed;
it makes avoiding detours much easier. Some things are interesting,
but not necessary for where my family is going.
o Collect aluminum cans. Hold a yard sale. Sell things you aren't using
on Ebay. Use the money to acquire needed school supplies.
o Have a home library. Yard sales, thrift stores, used book sellers
are great resources for inexpensive, classic, interesting books. We
now have a library of over 3,000 books. The average price paid is under
$5.
o Cut costs in other areas. Hang out your laundry. Cook from scratch.
Lower your clothing budget. Use it, re-use it; do not discard anything
until you are sure it is really dead.
o Ensure what you doing in legal and ethical. Thrifty and dishonest
are not the same thing!
o Know what you have. Money spent because you cannot find what you own
is money lost. Clutter can be expensive.
o Set your priorities for acquisitions. Search and pray for what you
really need. It is out there somewhere.
Spending large sums of money is easy when you homeschool. There is
so much that can be of worth and/or trendy. But it is unnecessary. Your
homeschooling journey can be a tremendous opportunity for learning,
growth, and creativity. Tight finances and limited resources are a reality,
but do not need to be the determining factor on how we educate our children.
Learn to think "outside the box", pray, work, and you absolutely
can prepare your children for the rest of their lives!